Wednesday 30 March 2011

DAY 17 -DOES AGE REALLY MATTER?

Two years ago, he wasn't sure if he would ever find love again (at the age of 48??) the unconditional type of love from the female species he was wishing for.


They met in JB and she was a helper in one of the restaurant he frequented. 19 yrs old, sweet and young. Although she has most of the qualities that he was looking for in a woman, he tried his best to push her away in the first year of their friendship cum 'relationship', believing that it will never work, for only one reason she is far too young and he was just not ready for high-risk relationships.


But no matter how hard he tried, she kept coming back. He did wonder why couldn't she just walk away to save herself from all the hassles especially that she has a lot of other options within her own age group….. those without past baggage, excess fat or wrinkles.

OK, I may not have wrinkles yet, but I'm sure some will appear just a few years down the road! (hahahahaha…..kidding)

Anyway, he is now done with pushing and God has actually answered his prayers sooner than expected. SHE IS the unconditional love that he was waiting for.. She loves him for the person he really is, the good and the bad.  Although they are of different characters and backgrounds, they share similar principles on life which to me, is the most important thing for a relationship to survive. Trust is never a problem between them even with the age gap, she has gained his utmost respect.. .So, does age REALLY matter? I guess not. What really matters are honesty, sense of responsibility, trust and respect.




 And I am glad that I have found these…..ME? 

2 comments:

  1. age always REALLY matter!!!!
    sad to say but its the truth

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  2. mere statement is never good enuff.....please layout out the sad truth......

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