There's an old joke that goes: Good girls say, "No;"
bad girls ask, "When?"
But most men want the best of both worlds: a princess on the
street and threat them with respect and a whore in the bedroom who acts like a
wildcat in heat between the sheets. So just what are the advantages and
disadvantages of dating bad girls and good girls? And is it possible to somehow
combine the two types into one perfect woman?
Let’s look at some of the qualities embodied by the Bad Girl (BG):
The Goods on the BG
She's fun
She party all night, drink herself into a stupor and still get
up the next day and be ready for more. She'll laugh and flirt, and make you
feel like a man.
She's exciting
BG is a walking adrenaline rushes. For her, life is a roller
coaster ride, and it'll get your blood singing just to be along for the trip
and they never have time for introspection or depression -- they're too busy
grabbing the world by the horns.
She craves sex
She loves men and makes no bones about it. She's more than happy
to fulfill any fantasy you can dream up. She's the kind who will tear up the
sheets while she's screaming out her seventh orgasm in a row (you'll feel like you're the king of the sexual
world). And you won't have to deal with any head games -- she's more
than happy to seduce you 24/7.
She's an eye candy
They are usually very attractive with jaw-dropping figures --
the ultimate "hot babes." They know how to walk the walk and catwalk
their stuff. They automade themselves the center of male attention and love
plunging necklines, bare midriffs, high heels, skirts hemmed at mid-thigh,
strapless anything, and sexy lingerie (if she wears any underwear at all….hahahaha).
She ups your status
When you have a stunner like this on your arm, all other men are
jealous and women are intrigued, and immediately your stud rating soars into
the stratosphere. You'll be the stuff of legends when you regale your buddies
with tales from your bedroom.
The Bads on the BG
She's untrustworthy
All men want her and she knows it, and she's definitely a serial
flirt. Because she's such a sexual animal, she's apt to seduce anyone who
strikes her fancy, so you shouldn't expect a BG to be loyal.
She's dangerous
She's the type who will go 100 in a 30 kmph zone just because
she likes the rush. She may be into drugs or excessive alcohol consumption.
She's spontaneous, unpredictable and wild.
She makes a bad partner
They are extremely self-obsessed and selfish. They think about
one person: themselves. They're extravagant and will spend their last dime on
themselves. They don't settle down comfortably. For these reasons, they usually
make lousy wives and mothers, and rarely survive lifelong relationships.
She is expensive
No low-maintenance here -- from day one she'll be looting your
wallet for expensive meals, trips and jewelry. The typical BG sets a very
high price on the use of her vagina, and if you don't want to cough up the
cash, there'll be plenty of guys panting in the wings to pay her price.
The goods on the good girl (GG)
She's
wholesome and nice
A GG is rarely bitchy or "empowered." (there are good girls
who can be a bitch when they have to) She's
pleasant to be around and has a positive attitude toward life. She'll go out of
her way to help you or take care of you when you're sick, and when problems
arise, she'll discuss them calmly, instead of flying into a rage or screaming
at you just because you're a "man."
She's a clean slate
With her limited sexual experience, a GG
doesn't have a lot of men to compare you to and won't expect you to be a
world-class lover.
She's unlikely to cheat on you
A GG tends to be homebodies, not party girls. Because she doesn't
present herself in the same sexually-alluring manner that a BG does,
you won't have to worry about a lot of other guys coming on to her. A GG wants to find the one true love of her life
and stay with him until death do them part, instead of seducing half the male
population before she gets too old.
She's often your best friend
She genuinely enjoys your company and gives back to you as much
as she takes. When you're gone, she misses you; when you're at home, she showers
you with attention (Does this type of woman really exist?).
She's easier on finances
GG can rate low on the
maintenance scale -- they're much more likely to share dating expenses (just
because it's the right thing to do), and if you get married, she'll happily
throw her paycheck in with yours to pay the mortgage and bills (excuse me
darling..your money is mine and my money is mine alone..heheh).
She makes a good wife & mother and a typical GG is
practical, down-to-earth and nurturing. She loves children. She usually comes
from a good family and wants to carry on those family values in her own life.
The Bads on the GG
She's about as exciting as vanilla
Since she'd rather stay at home reading a book than go out
partying, life with a GG can be
a bit uneventful.
She can be a sexual dud
GG are often boring in bed, either from lack of experience or lack
of desire. Sex with her is predictable. She rarely inspires lust and will
probably wait for her man to initiate lovemaking. This can leave the typical
guy very unfulfilled, his gaze straying toward that BG over
there with the unfettered nipples and the long wraparound legs.
She's fashionably comfortable
She wears her hair pulled back and little make-up. She prefers
sweats and tennis shoes to mini skirts and pumps. Oftentimes, you can forget
about thong underwear.
The Good to Bad…
So the question remains: Which one should you choose? The
obvious answer is that the perfect woman would embody the best of both of these
types -- the niceness and loyalty of the good girl and the sexual abandon of
the bad girl.
While such women may exist naturally out there, it's more likely
that, to achieve this ideal, you'll have to train a good girl to be bad.
How?
Well, this may not be an easy task, because many good girl have
been brainwashed by mom or school into thinking that "bad" is
inherently wrong. So the trick is to encourage her natural sexuality. Make her
comfortable with sex. Romance her. Tell her how sexy she is when she seduces
you or fulfills your fantasies -- or how satisfying it is to fulfill hers. Let
her understand that great sex between the two of you can create an awesome
bond, and that it is -- ultimately -- "good."
So while bad girl can be
exciting, they're usually only worth it in the short term. If you can find a good girl and
turn her into a sexual animal, you may just have found the perfect woman. And
pretty soon, your GOOD GIRL may be asking,
"When?"
-Matthew
Fitzgerald, the author of Sex-Ploytation-
** Somehow I believe most
Malaysian girls are GOOD GIRLS .
Hehehe...but there's no harm in being a lil bit naughty :)
