Of the Birdie and Pinnie

Billi was three when I taught him the word PENIS instead of calling it cuckoo, birdie or winkie  or @&### in Malay.(hahahaha…..malu lak nak tulis). Still in his baby talk he would say pinnie then and does that up till now…

During one of my long leaves, at home, I overheard Aman (his cousin) making comparison of his genitals to his two younger brothers Arman and Erwin. Billi, being 5 years Aman's junior might not comprehend what the brothers were doing. Since then, I caught him several time playing with the lil fellow down there and was worried if  the habit would develop into an annoying sight as he gets older.

 Well, I understand for the male species, no matter how young and inexperienced they are, it is his pride and dignity. It is manhood. Perhaps a woman may shatter a man's ego by belittling his @#%& capabilities/size wateva.  (I am just being honest guys….hehehehe)

Will I get into trouble for being bold here?? Well, I am his mother  trying to implant good manners based on my observation, it can't be wrong, right?

So, I told Billi the exact name to his genital because I am quite disturbed seeing him toying it and I don’t want him confused of that little dangling thing down there. There is no baby name for it and he must be responsible of his actions in regards to it. Don't come to mama, blaming "cuckoo" or "birdie" for being mischievous, thinking that I would forgive it because it is still the little thing. No way Billi, that is your PENIS, you ought to learn what you can and can’t do with it. Treat it with respect no matter how young you are.

Perhaps what upsets me most is to learn that my friend's 13 year old son has one day suggested to his younger sister to experiment the scenes of the 'movies' that their father enjoys watching. This  man makes no effort to hide away his extensive collection of porn from his own growing up kids. 

Do you see how damaging it could be to the kids? And incest is no more a strange issue !!. How will our future generation be if our young ones only have porn in their minds? Of course, sex is NOT a dirty thing, it is the only means for humanity to maintain its existence on Earth. 

No, I am not suggesting anything here, but you may speculate, though. Capturing sexual activities to capitalize on something is inhumane.