What's your choice dude?

There's an old joke that goes: Good girls say, "No;" bad girls ask, "When?"

But most men want the best of both worlds: a princess on the street and threat them with respect and a whore in the bedroom who acts like a wildcat in heat between the sheets. So just what are the advantages and disadvantages of dating bad girls and good girls? And is it possible to somehow combine the two types into one perfect woman?

Let’s look at some of the qualities embodied by the Bad Girl (BG):

The Goods on the BG

  She's fun

She party all night, drink herself into a stupor and still get up the next day and be ready for more. She'll laugh and flirt, and make you feel like a man.

  She's exciting

BG is a walking adrenaline rushes. For her, life is a roller coaster ride, and it'll get your blood singing just to be along for the trip and they never have time for introspection or depression -- they're too busy grabbing the world by the horns.

  She craves sex

She loves men and makes no bones about it. She's more than happy to fulfill any fantasy you can dream up. She's the kind who will tear up the sheets while she's screaming out her seventh orgasm in a row (you'll feel like you're the king of the sexual world). And you won't have to deal with any head games -- she's more than happy to seduce you 24/7.

  She's an eye candy

They are usually very attractive with jaw-dropping figures -- the ultimate "hot babes." They know how to walk the walk and catwalk their stuff. They automade themselves the center of male attention and love plunging necklines, bare midriffs, high heels, skirts hemmed at mid-thigh, strapless anything, and sexy lingerie (if she wears any underwear at all….hahahaha).

  She ups your status

When you have a stunner like this on your arm, all other men are jealous and women are intrigued, and immediately your stud rating soars into the stratosphere. You'll be the stuff of legends when you regale your buddies with tales from your bedroom.

The Bads on the BG

  She's untrustworthy

All men want her and she knows it, and she's definitely a serial flirt. Because she's such a sexual animal, she's apt to seduce anyone who strikes her fancy, so you shouldn't expect a BG to be loyal.

  She's dangerous

She's the type who will go 100 in a 30 kmph zone just because she likes the rush. She may be into drugs or excessive alcohol consumption. She's spontaneous, unpredictable and wild.

  She makes a bad partner

They are extremely self-obsessed and selfish. They think about one person: themselves. They're extravagant and will spend their last dime on themselves. They don't settle down comfortably. For these reasons, they usually make lousy wives and mothers, and rarely survive lifelong relationships.

  She is expensive

No low-maintenance here -- from day one she'll be looting your wallet for expensive meals, trips and jewelry. The typical BG sets a very high price on the use of her vagina, and if you don't want to cough up the cash, there'll be plenty of guys panting in the wings to pay her price.

The goods on the good girl (GG)

  She's wholesome and nice

A GG is rarely bitchy or "empowered." (there are good girls who can be a bitch when they have to) She's pleasant to be around and has a positive attitude toward life. She'll go out of her way to help you or take care of you when you're sick, and when problems arise, she'll discuss them calmly, instead of flying into a rage or screaming at you just because you're a "man."

  She's a clean slate

With her limited sexual experience, a GG doesn't have a lot of men to compare you to and won't expect you to be a world-class lover.

  She's unlikely to cheat on you

A GG tends to be homebodies, not party girls. Because she doesn't present herself in the same sexually-alluring manner that a BG does, you won't have to worry about a lot of other guys coming on to her. A GG  wants to find the one true love of her life and stay with him until death do them part, instead of seducing half the male population before she gets too old.

 She's often your best friend

She genuinely enjoys your company and gives back to you as much as she takes. When you're gone, she misses you; when you're at home, she showers you with attention (Does this type of woman really exist?).

  She's easier on finances

GG can rate low on the maintenance scale -- they're much more likely to share dating expenses (just because it's the right thing to do), and if you get married, she'll happily throw her paycheck in with yours to pay the mortgage and bills (excuse me darling..your money is mine and my money is mine alone..heheh).

She makes a good wife & mother and a typical GG is practical, down-to-earth and nurturing. She loves children. She usually comes from a good family and wants to carry on those family values in her own life.

The Bads on the GG

  She's about as exciting as vanilla

Since she'd rather stay at home reading a book than go out partying, life with a GG can be a bit uneventful.

  She can be a sexual dud

GG are often boring in bed, either from lack of experience or lack of desire. Sex with her is predictable. She rarely inspires lust and will probably wait for her man to initiate lovemaking. This can leave the typical guy very unfulfilled, his gaze straying toward that BG over there with the unfettered nipples and the long wraparound legs.

  She's fashionably comfortable

She wears her hair pulled back and little make-up. She prefers sweats and tennis shoes to mini skirts and pumps. Oftentimes, you can forget about thong underwear.

The Good to Bad…

So the question remains: Which one should you choose? The obvious answer is that the perfect woman would embody the best of both of these types -- the niceness and loyalty of the good girl and the sexual abandon of the bad girl.

While such women may exist naturally out there, it's more likely that, to achieve this ideal, you'll have to train a good girl to be bad.

How?

Well, this may not be an easy task, because many good girl have been brainwashed by mom or school into thinking that "bad" is inherently wrong. So the trick is to encourage her natural sexuality. Make her comfortable with sex. Romance her. Tell her how sexy she is when she seduces you or fulfills your fantasies -- or how satisfying it is to fulfill hers. Let her understand that great sex between the two of you can create an awesome bond, and that it is -- ultimately -- "good."

So while bad girl can be exciting, they're usually only worth it in the short term. If you can find a good girl and turn her into a sexual animal, you may just have found the perfect woman. And pretty soon, your GOOD GIRL may be asking, "When?"

-Matthew Fitzgerald, the author of Sex-Ploytation-

** Somehow I believe most Malaysian girls are GOOD GIRLS . Hehehe...but there's no harm in being a lil bit naughty :)