It's All Here.....

So, that's how it is, isn't it? But I don't think there is a perfect 'the one' mama….

There's no way you can find that one person who can fulfill every criteria that you wish in a life partner.

 I will continue the discussion from my point of view here. ( My mom won’t be able to read this…I know.)

I know the drill. Ask any woman about the kind of man she wants, some (or all) of these criteria will be in their list…….

… tall, funny, kind, sweet, sensitive, lean body, religious, share the same interests, outgoing, intelligent, has a successful career, great smile, healthy, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, has a great car, a house would be a bonus, gentle, affectionate, strong-minded, and oh yeah good looking.

If you ask me, of course I want the same thing too. I'm not going to lie. Who wouldn't want a guy like that? But you got to face the facts 

Guys like that DO NOT exist.

Even if you did manage to find one, I guarantee, he's either married or gay.

Frankly, I never had a set idea of the perfect man for me.
Honest! I try not to have that fixed idea of what kind of man I want to be with. But of course I do have a cynical idea of 'The One'

Realistically, I do imagine the man I would end up with would be... kind, smart, funny, do not think housework is a woman's job, worships me, able to accept all my faults and shortcomings and of course, I would also be able to accept all his faults and shortcomings.

How's that? That's not so much to ask, isn't it?

I know these phrases has been used over and over again…..
Love is blind ~~ Looks don't matter ~~ It's the personality that counts

Slow down now and take a good look around….are you on the bus or the train?  You might be on the street, or simply observe the car beside you while you're stuck in the jam. When you see a couple, try to see if they're compatible in terms of looks and you find that those words above are true.

Can you honestly say that every couple could be called cute or hot? No right?

I have seen couples where the girl was so damn cute but the guy was hehehe……(you tell me)  And cute guys going out with not so cute girls. If looks really matter, how come these couples get together and be happy?


I'll just leave it at that.

Please don’t get mad mama because age is never an issue here….