Violets are blue so is the sky....

Life as nature sets in, is interesting. You meet new people, get along beautifully with them, observe them, write about those beautiful and not so beautiful characters you see in them and at the same token you get the advantage to read and understand their thoughts too. Along the way you re-acquainted with old friends.

Life by all means is very, very exciting and awesome too.

The sky is the bluest at the horizon these past couple of days. Sure there are some grey clouds floating around, fair weather cumulus and cumulonimbus but I love cirrus when it’s at the bluest. Somehow, with it being so blue, the rest of the world becomes more beautiful but if you are on land, the trees and grasses will look greener, hills look prettier than ever.

In life when we choose to see all the beauty, we will focus on the good things instead of the bad (grey dark clouds). There are a lot more good friends than bad, more beautiful memories than sad, easier ways to do things and the list goes on and on. Ultimately it’s our choice good or bad and a bad choice (no choice) in life will do us more harm than good, will consume and suffocate us along the way.

I’ve been really busy with work lately to catch up with old friends, good friends, new friends, treasured friends(Fb&T)….bad ones too. If I continue down this road, I guess I will end up losing most of them. (I don’t mind losing the bad ones though). 

I am so lucky so blessed with friends who understand my far afield life, and when we do catch up, it’s as if there were no hiatus in between. And again, it is my choice, to make the time and effort, compose an email, a line or two no matter where I am for them. Sure, we cannot get together as often as we like, but we must continue to connect. In any way we can.

Each time when I look through the internet, I see people connecting every day, every single moment (Since I am separated from the more sophisticated and civilized world by ocean a part the only way to see the other side is through the internet). Some are connected to each other with honest intentions and I guess some are not. Some genuinely like the people they are connecting and some do it because they have to do it. And that is life.

We are souls that thirst for connection, for involvement..... for relationship. That is the reason some of us are in temporary relationship, or trapped in a bad relationship, because any connection is better than none. No one is a detached soul. The thing that differs one from the others, are the intentions and ultimate goal. What do you want from the connection or involvement in a  relationship? Friendship?

Although life is not always fair, and relationship is not always smooth, choose to look at the bright side of things. That life is not always unfair and relationship is not always rocky and friendship does turn sour. Aim for balance. 

The sky is never always grey, and it was the brightest blue yesterday…(I wonder what it would be today)

I love my life…..Alhamdulillah. Goodnite peeps.

I love you….